There are possibilities within you to develop your personality with strong character. You must recognize and understand them. The key to success is hidden within you. The wealth you have earned is not important but what is important is the means you have adopted for attaining that wealth. Your capabilities, personality, your thoughts, and your ideals are all very important in determining your character. Some essential components of Personality Development are:
Be polite and speak sweetly:
Sweet words have their own advantage and it is a major component in developing our personality. Society gives respect to a person who has control over his speech and everybody wants to conserve with a person who is sweetly spoken. That is why we should always try and add sweet and soft spoken words in our speech.
All actions are controlled by tongue. They originate from speech. So it is essential that speech is controlled by mind. A person who is dishonest by speech is considered dishonest in all respects. The man who has not control over his speech can not be sure if he can exercise any control over his self while working. If a wrong thing is said in good style it also becomes effective. Then if you say a good thing in good way it has no comparison.
Keep away from lies, fraud, and deception:
It is clear that the fate of a person is formed by the work he dies, the branch of a tree bends in the direction it is diverted. If a person once mixed up himself in lies then instead of making Uncountable Efforts he cannot get out of it and daily he will keep moving toward downfall. We can never improve our personality if we keep within us.
Believe in healthy competition:
The path of all success is filed with thorns. There is no hindrance in the path of downfall, but no sooner we lift the first step towards progress we start facing difficulties. Only those people who have big courage and enthusiasm can advance on this path. Those who have moved forward have become constant. These who cross all the pains, sufferings, all the barriers, and sorrows are also able to taste the sweet fruits of success.
To achieve success it is necessary that all the energies of mind, body, and wealth are utilized in one direction only. When all energies of mind and soul are concentrated for a particular work then all sources become available for completion of that particular work.
The importance of positive attitude:
Positive attitude is of great importance in our personality. Many people, in stead of having sufficient talent and qualification, do not progress and succeeds in life because of their narrow outlook. Everyone hates people who have narrow outlook. In life only that person is considered will behave who have positive and health bend of mind.
The real beauty of a man lies not in his physical appearance but in his work and good qualities. The ability and achievements of a person are judged by his mentality. That is why it is important that we improve our mental outlook. By adopting positive outlook we can get rid of mental dissatisfaction. This change will help you to contribute a lot in making your relations better and sweet with people as well as your personality will bright all over as like the stars in the sky.
Anger and irritation are your enemies:
Apparently, there is no man in this world who has never been angry for some or the other reason. But some people are such who become angry. People who get angry and irritated habitually do not realize that this habit of theirs will be a difficult in path of their Personality Development and they will become their own enemies.
Anger results in idiocy and insanity. Sometimes delicate tissues and veins even get burnt, outwardly we do not come to know that damage has been caused but we destroy many hidden treasures in our body in fire of anger.
Spare time for social service:
If we want to be identity in the society and want to reach the acme of success, we should not keep out self separate from society. Our deep feelings and responsibility towards society makes us good and responsible citizen of the society we live in. The more we work for society and the more we remain connected with it, the more famous we will become the fame will enhance our personality and enthusiasm. Always remember that society is ours. We need it. Live not only for yourself but for the society.
Develop your creative power:
Our creative streak and positive capacity can pay us dividends. One who is engaged in constructive activity of one or the other kind is always happy. All men should approaches their energies in creative work. Be it domestic chores, agriculture, social work, physical labour, craftsmanship, office work, or daily wager. Breach in creativity is a breach in peace and happiness.
Know the value of time:
Every moment of our life is a golden moment. The door of progress and development remain open for the person who knows to make best use of these moments. On the other hand worthless pursuits or pass these moments carelessly, face depression and disappointment on all sphere victims of vicious circle of failures.